I am catching up with posting online my articles.
This is the continuation of the previous article:
INTERESTING REALIZATION ABOUT GOOD MORNING AND GOOD NIGHT - PART 1
INTERESTING REALIZATION ABOUT GOOD MORNING AND GOOD NIGHT - PART 2
This conversation was "more productive" and my friend was more at ease because now she could understand the reason for my "unusual" behaviour of not greeting her in the morning and evening. And so that evening she left to her room without any "judgments" about me. But even then I realised that we still have not found the constructive solution.
Thus the next day I continued to think about this whole situation. And eventually I came up with something really interesting which is a constructive solution to our "difficult" situation.
And thus when I got back home from work I suggested to my friend that instead of saying good night or good morning we could look each other into the eyes and then share a friendly hug. You'll know... in this moment of looking into the eyes each of us must be sincere. If I am not then it is easy to see it by the other person. And so this way I sort out this element of automaticity of the saying good morning and good night. And then this point of hugging is also interesting because I come around the point of separation ( starting the day and ending the day ). We decide to hug each other in the morning and in the evening ( whenever it is possible ) but then we can also get a hug during the day whenever somebody feels like.
So here we have that instead of separation and automaticity we have something that is live, sincere and an act of unification. I am really impressed and happy with this solution. And so was my friend. In the end we have constructive solution which is best or all and nobody has to compromise their values.
Of course here it is important to mention that the hugging may become automatic like the good morning and good night words. But this is up to me ( us ) if we make it this way. Right now I am very pleased with this solution and now we will have to test it in the real life.