I am catching up with posting online my articles.
This is the continuation of the previous article:
INTERESTING REALIZATION ABOUT GOOD MORNING AND GOOD NIGHT - PART 1
Thus 2 weeks later I had a conversation with my friend in which she brought up this point again. But this time it was pointed out directly and so I could give my reason of why I don't reply to my friend when she says good morning or good night to me.
Thus I do not like to use the words good morning and good night as I see it as:
1. Obligation - you'll know... when somebody says to you good morning then you are obliged to reply to it with the same. Because if you don't then the other person automatically thinks of you as rude, impolite, uneducated, being disrespectful etc. And you'll see... I do not like to feel obliged. I want to have the freedom of express myself with words. Of course I mentioned it before that on the outside I reply to other people but then I prefer to say hello rather than good morning.
2. Separation - I see that "good night" is like leaving and then good morning as "coming back". But then when I live with somebody in the same house I do not leave this person. I am still here sleeping in the same bed or in the adjacent room. I do not see going to sleep as leaving. I am here next to this person and I do not leave this person. Thus according to my logic I do not need to say good bye or good night as I am here.
3. No meaning to these words - you may say to me good night but that does not mean that I will have good night. You may wish me sweat dreams but that does not mean that my dreams will not be a nightmare. And the same with the good morning. Your good morning does not guarantee that my morning or even the day will be good. So this good night has no meaning to me. I will sleep the same as if you say to me good night or you don't.
Of course I realise that my logic within this whole situation is very unusual but still because it is unusual it does not mean that it is wrong. Apart from this I do not force upon you my logic and do as I do it. You may do whatever you want and as you wish. You may say to me good morning and good night to me as often as you like. But then at the same time I would like that you do not expect me to reply to you greetings and/or force upon me your logic.
Anyway I explained my point to my friend my point and although it is kind of difficult for her to accept that I have this point of view, at least she does look at me from different perspective and she is not so "judgmental" about me.
To be continued