I am catching up with posting online my articles.
This is the continuation of the previous article:
IS BETRAYAL OF MY BEST FRIEND A GOOD SIGN ? - PART 1
IS BETRAYAL OF MY BEST FRIEND A GOOD SIGN ? - PART 2
And what about me ?
What is going to happen with me now ?
Because in the end it was my best friend who has given me his words and whom I have trusted but in the end he showed that I shouldn't have. And so in this kind of situations it is very easy to fall into the trap of making decisions that I will not trust anybody ever again. And obviously I thought about it and I asked myself this question about trusting other people.
And here what I have realised and decided...
1. It is not about trusting other people. It is about trusting the ego. And it has been proven that ego cannot be trusted at all. And thus when I see and smell the ego in the air I will not trust that person. And how can I "smell it" ? Look... once you are in balance within yourself then this is something really easy. I could see it within my friend but I did not act accordingly. I have overwritten my instincts because of the long friendship with my friend and now I am paying the consequences of it.
Well... I made a mistake. But I have learned from it and I will not make it again.
2. From this first point there comes another realisation which is: That it does not matter who it is ( your mother, father, brother, husband, child, best friend etc. ) because once the ego takes control of somebody then it will try to stab you with the knife in your back and it will say that it was your fault. So that means that once we detect and smell the ego we must act accordingly. It does matter who this person was and what s/he did for you in the past, you must act accordingly in the moment. The ego of this person will try to use the memories of the past and the feelings to manipulate you and get you blind but later - as I said - it will stab you in your back in the least expected moment.
Do not trust ego under any circumstance. Act accordingly in a way which best for all. It does not matter that you will be called asshole, ungrateful bastard etc. If you don't do it then you will pay for it later and you will regret it.
To be continued