I am catching up with posting online my articles.
This is the continuation of the previous article:
IS BETRAYAL OF MY BEST FRIEND A GOOD SIGN ? - PART 1
So why would my best friend betray me ?
Well... from what I understand the reason for it is that he thinks that I have betrayed him and so what he did is justified. Without going into more of the details behind this whole story it is very easy to see that we are dealing here with the mind, the ego and the polarities... don't we ? One side of the conflict has its own point of view and the other one different. And both of them think/believe that they are "right".
But now it is important to ask whether both sides of the "conflict" participate in the mind construct ? Because there is also an option where the ego is being challenged by somebody and then the situation is very similar - we have 2 different points of view and there is a conflict.
And so here in my case we have a situation when I started to challenge the ego of my friend. Apart from this I have made lately some profound changes within myself while my friend has not ( he has got stuck on some points ) and thus it seems and it looks like as if I have left my friend behind. And so he feels as if I was not honest with him and I have betrayed him.
But this is only how his ego sees it. The reality is different. But then he does not want to know the facts and see the reality as his ego and the emotions make him completely blind in this moment. He does not want to communicate with me and find the constructive solutions which is best for all of us because the ego feels threatened by any conversation with me.
Anyway... right now we are going on two separate paths. He has entered a cycle and it will take some time before he will have the opportunity to see the play of the ego and change it within himself. When he succeeds then we will have the opportunity to communicate again and find a constructive solution. If he does not then he will go through another cycle and so on until he gets it.
To be continued