I am catching up with posting online my articles.
So there came another break and clearance in my life. I do not know if that is already all but I would say that this is all for now. Anyway... today I had a conversation with my ex and it turned to be painful for her. And so there came the decision to finish our contact completely. We fill give ourselves back our things and then there will be no more contact.
At the same time I made the decision to reduce even further or maybe even completely contact with my other friend. This is because we talked yesterday and it looks like there is also the element of not forgiving the past and blaming for it.
As I was saying in one of my articles I am making and preparing space for new people and experiences in my life. So the old must go and make the place for the new. And for me this is easy to do as I have experience with it. No emotional attachment.
But I have to mention here that although I let these people go, I stay by the "statement" that I love them. According to my definition:
Love = to support myself and others unconditionally so that myself and others may become the best they can.
I am living this word practically. I let these people go as I see that this is the best for them and myself. If I make a mistake here then will sooner or later learn from it. But at the moment there is no regret on my side. As a matter of fact I already see the benefits coming from this decision.