I am catching up with posting online my articles.
Not so long ago I spoke with one of my friends and during our conversation she mentioned that she would like to make changes in her life. This is cool but then I pointed out that if she really wants to make a real change then she must finish completely some parts of her business which is abusive in its nature. She knew about it herself but then she was always hesitating to do it. And now pointing it is so clearly by me gave her confirmation and impulse to do it. You'll know... in that moment she has made the decision to do it but then I know that this decision means not much if she would not follow it with actions.
Few days later we met again and she told me that she is making the changes within her business. And it was really cool to hear.
But then few days later she told me that she decided to sold her business and that she has already put the announcement about it online.
I will say it again... it is really cool that she followed her decision with real actions. But unfortunately she did not realise one thing. Thus I pointed out to her that by selling her business she will be able in a way to get rid of it but this does not take away from her the responsibility for the abuse. Because you'll see... she has given her energy into creation of abuse and now by selling it she will not participate in the abuse directly herself but she would make it easy for others to continue with the abuse and through this she would continue to be responsible and held accountable for it. And thus I suggested that she cleans up the mess herself and then she could decide whether she wants to sell it or do something else with it.
So you'll see... don't take the easy way out because this does not release you from being accountable and responsible for the shit that you have started in the first place. The only easy way to go is if you follow the principle of what is best for all. Though it is worth to remember that doing "what is best for all" may seem in the beginning not so easy. But eventually you will understand it yourself and you then you will be glad that you did it.