7 YRS PROCESS - DAY 930 - STOPPING THE DESIRE TO MEET MY SOULMATE AND BEING HAPPY WITH MYSELF - PART 3

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Stopping the desire to meet my soulmate and being happy with myself

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I say it again... there is nothing wrong with meeting the person from another life. But when you meet one then investigate and be extremely careful what are you getting yourself into especially when you are falling in love with this person or you feel any strong happy emotions. Usually this happiness and love is a trap of your mind to get you hooked into it and then you may end up in the opposite polarity. And this is not what you expected that you would experience with your soulmate - the symbol of infinite and pure love. This does not have to happen under condition that you neutralise the polarities by changing yourself and stopping yourself from creating the polarities.

Now... let's go back to my personal experience. I write to you to be careful because I have made this mistake and I ignored the warning signs. I have made up various excuses and believes within my mind and one of them was that my soulmate needs some time to understand things and change them within herself. Today I am free from it. Obviously there is a possibility for me to make the same mistake and get myself into another relationship with "another soulmate". But why would I do it ? Why would I get myself into shithole and suffering if I know how it is going to end up ? So I am aware of is there and I can make aware choice of what I am doing, what I am allowing, what I am creating and co-creating and direct the whole situation in the way which I best for all.

So... as I said today I am free from it and one of the signs that I am free from it is that when I walk on the street among people I am not looking desperately for this one special person with whom I would click. But this is does not mean at all that I would not like to get into a relationship/agreement with somebody. Yes... I do would like to do it. But if I do my starting point will be "what is best for all" and I will not make any excuses or compromises. The compromises don't work - neither with family, best friends or our partners. You cannot compromise the principle of "what is best for all" and still be "best for all". You either do it absolutely or you don't. Yes or no. There is no "half-way" solution. The half way solution works only in your mind because in your mind you can make yourself any kind of excuses and justification and you will make yourself believe that they are true although the reality shows you the opposite. You make yourself blind with your beliefs. If you do not see it now then continue to believe that your excuses and justifications are valid and true. But the reality will show you whether this is really true and valid.





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Written: 2014 - November - 01   Published: 2014 - November - 10      © Copyright 2014 - Greg Wiater