I am catching up with posting online my articles. I moved to a new place and I was without fixed internet access for almost a month. I was also very busy with work and that is why I got this big delay with posting online. Though I did not skip a single day with writing my articles.
In the last article I have given couple of practical examples on how to deal with the global problem of sexual abuse. I have pointed out that any action out there must be accompanied by the corrections within each person because without this one we are only dealing with the symptoms and not with the cause.
Now... This point about identifying what can be practically done with this global problem of sexual abuse is very important because on many occasions people become aware of certain problem in our world but because it seems to be big and people look at themselves as small and insignificant then they give up before even considering what can be done.
But identifying the points which can be practically applied towards the solution is only the first step. It is very important step but it is the beginning. Then comes the next step in which we must practically apply the practical solutions in real life. And this is also quite often a challenge for many reasons. You know... We are busy with job, with our family etc. We see it as necessary to do and we really want to do it but then... the reality is different.
Apart from this we also have to deal with the greatest enemy of this process of stopping the sexual abuse in the world. This enemy is "YOU". Yes... Once you have got into the habit of using the services of the prostitute and/or stimulating yourself sexually and masturbating yourself while watching porn or you have got into any other habit then it may not be so easy for you to stop it immediately although you would like to do it. It is very possible to stop it immediately and never come back to it but then the reality within our world is that people fall time after time into the habit and some of them at some point give up on trying to stop it. It is because you listen to the little voices of temptation in your head and then you find justification to do it again. You will regret it afterwards but then it is too late because you have done it.
Myself I got into watching porn about 15 years ago and thus I know it from inside how it functions. About five years ago I came across articles and video interviews from Desteni Group explaining in details the mechanism of this pattern and all the consequences which it creates for myself and for the whole world. And then I decided to stop it. I had two or three falls but eventually I got it and I have not been participating in this pattern for over 2 years. I still have little voices in my head from time to time tempting me to do it but they simply don't listen to them and don't participate in it. No excuses... no justification... simply NO.
If you need help and assistance with dealing with this problem here is the link to Group on Facebook "Masturbation and Porn Addictions". Although you are the one who has to deal with this problem on your own in your head and you must stop it within yourself, you may get support and assistance from others who are dealing with this problem as well.