I am catching up with posting online my articles. I moved to a new place and I was without fixed internet access for almost a month. I was also very busy with work and that is why I got this big delay with posting online. Though I did not skip a single day with writing my articles.
CONCLUSIONS
From personal experience and from observation of others I have to say that it is possible to "manifest/create" certain experiences within our life. Though the books about the positive thinking and the law of attraction ( e.g. "The Secret" ) don't mention that while working with and focusing on the positive energy we create automatically the opposite ( the negative ) to balance the law of polarities. Prior to the latest changes in the universe and in the dimensions ( according to the message of Desteni Group, Bernard Poolman and Sunette Spies ) the negative did not necessarily manifest in the life of a person creating the positive and the law of opposites was balancing itself through manifestation in the life of other people. But now the things are being somehow reversed ( and again I say this after listening to the message of Desteni Group ) so that each person can experience directly and almost immediately the consequences of their actions ( in this case creating negative through focusing on the positive energy and positive feelings ).
All this what I have read from the Desteni Group website and listening to the video interviews on their Youtube channels is for me to a certain extent a theory. I have not communicated directly with the inter-dimensional beings like Sunette Bernard did and kind of I take this information for granted as true. But then on the other hand having direct experience with the law of attraction and positive thinking and observing others who were also involved into practicing these laws I have to say that it is actually true what Desteni Groups says.
Now... here is a question: "why my friend doesn't see it despite the series of unlucky ( negative ) experiences despite the fact that he was trying to attract only the positive into his life ?".
Well... this thing about the positive thinking and the law of attraction can become an obsession and/or addiction and we can become lost within it. And then it is easy to deny the facts of reality. And this is what I see with my friend. He insists that all the negative experiences are there for a reason to guide him to the final goal of his positive experience. He believes that thanks to all the negative experiences he has become a better person which he is today. Well... in a way he is right about it because he is changing through all these experiences but then he is not really different to others who also change through their own sufferings. But then this is also telling me that he is desperately trying to convince himself that the positive thinking works. And he does it also by attributing almost every "positive" experience in his life to the fact that he is using the visualization and the positive thinking.
Now... maybe he is right about it... maybe I am wrong about what I say... But yet all I have written here is based on personal experience with the law of attraction and observations of the facts within life of my friend. And so far I see that my friend is obsessively trying to prove that positive thinking works and within this he is denying the facts of reality.
The last question within this series of articles about the positive thinking:
Is there anything within the law of attraction that really works without side effects of the law of the opposites ?
The only way to not become entrapped by the law of the opposites ( where you will have to face the negative ) is to create only that which is best for all and never compromise it. If you do compromise you will go through the whole cycle. In the beginning you may feel very positive and happy because you achieve your goal and fulfill your desire but sooner or later you will have to deal with all the consequences of it without the possibility to escape them and at the end of the cycle you will say that it was not worth it. This is something 100% certain. It is kind of universal law and universal principle.