Sometimes in your process of journey to life you will be presented ( or rather you will present yourself as yourself )with an opportunity/possibility to fulfill your personal desire, your wish, your dream etc. And there will be a great temptation to go for it. And you will be in the process of thinking about it and trying to make decision. And you will try to justify going for it believing that somehow you will find a way to continue your process and at the same time fulfill your dream/ your wish / your desire.
Well... there is one point to remember and to take into consideration when making this type of decisions. If you commit yourself towards the best of all, it must be absolute commitment. Every breath and every moment of your life must be the absolute reflection of this principle - of what is best for all. And thus if you think that you will be able to go for and fulfill your personal desire which is not best for all and hope at the same time you will be able to continue with your process of journey to life which is best for all, you are mistaken. You are compromising the principle in that moment. You are not absolute in your commitment. And if you go for your desire you will have to go through the cycle ( hopefully only one ) through which you will have to learn the hard way.
It is not worth it. And you will repeat my last sentence at the end of the cycle.